I hate this part right here

Was actually in a mood to update, but now, I am not in a mood to update.

I feel my life fade away with each step I take, Or I wish It would…

Like my Ipod stuck on replay

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29 January 2010

Why do I titled that? Because that’s the day which I done the keyhole surgery for the cyst found in my ovary. Was admitted to hospital on the 25 January, went through all the horrendous needles-poking & withdrawing of blood, was like ouch.

Requested to get discharge 2 days after that, as I felt that oral medication might help but I was sooooooooo wrong. The pain came back again & I had to force myself to sleep to numb the pain. Decided to go for the operation so I went back to SGH on the 28 January 2010. Dr Cindy Pang suggested to have the operation @ 12am, which is 29 January.

Just like the normal procedure, the doctor checked on this & that, & then injected anesthetics for me. & I’ve no idea what is happening after that… Baby was waiting for me throughout the whole operation, it took about 3 and a half hour. Throughout my stay in the hospital, he was there for me, giving in to me & giving in to my needs. Bought magazines to entertain me & food to fill my hunger… Daddy & Mummy, my cousin :) & also, Huiping! If they are not around with me in the hospital, I guess I’m going to die of boredom… There’s practically nothing for me to do & I can’t even rest peacefully.

I’m so glad that the whole thing is over, with the support & encouragement of my family, baby & my friends. As I am never a person who will be brave enough to go through such pain, even though it is just a minor operation, encouragement wishes do play a huge part of everything :)

Before the operation, baby was there to encourage me the whole night… Sharing his stories with me, making me feel less nervous & scared. I appreciate it so much! & messages that came in… Thanks people! :)

Yayyyy!!! Now that the disgusting/ annoying/ irritating cyst is gone & I hope it will be gone forever & not to come back to haunt me again! Shoooooo!

Just hope that I will have a speedy recovery, & then, good food, here I come! :)

P.s: Thanks baby for what you had done for me throughout my stay in the hospital, thanks for giving in to my nonsensical temper & listening to my whining & worrying. Thanks for buying food for me. Thanks for rushing down to visit me whenever you can. Thanks for washing my smelly smelly hair for me, hahaha. Thanks for buying magazines to entertain me. Thanks for waiting for me during my operation. Thanks for accompanying me. Thanks for showering me with lots of love, care & concern. Thanks for everything, love u!

xoxoxo

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The Secrets of a Good Relationship

Whether you’re in love or not, I think this could be applicable to any kind of relationship: family, friends, significant other. It’s a good read.

TRUST

Trust is a very important factor for all relationships. When trust is broken, it is the end of the relationship. Lack of trust leads to suspicion, suspicion generates anger, anger causes enmity and enmity may result in separation.

A telephone operator told me that one day she received a phone call. She answered, “Public Utilities Board.” There was silence. She repeated, “PUB.” There was still no answer. When she was going to cut off the line, she Heard a lady’s voice, “Oh, so this is PUB. Sorry, I got the number from my Husband’s pocket but I do not know whose number it is.”

Without mutual trust, just imagine what will happen to the couple if the telephone operator answered with just “hello” instead of “PUB”…

NO POINTING FINGERS

A man asked his father-in-law, “Many people praised you for a successful marriage. Could you please share with me your secret?” The father-in-law answered in a smile, “Never criticize your wife for her shortcomings or when she does something wrong. Always bear in mind that because of her shortcomings and weaknesses, she could not find a better husband than you.”

We all look forward to being loved and respected. Many people are afraid of losing face. Generally, when a person makes a mistake, he would look around to find a scapegoat to point the finger at.

This is the start of a war.

We should always remember that when we point one finger at a person, the other four fingers are pointing at ourselves.

If we forgive the others, others will ignore our mistake too.

CREATING PERFECT RELATIONSHIPS?

A person visited the government matchmaker for marriage, SDU, and requested “I am looking for a spouse. Please help me to find a suitable one.” The SDU officer said, “Your requirements, please.” “Oh, good looking, polite, humorous, sporty, knowledgeable, good in singing and dancing. Willing to accompany me the whole day at home, during my leisure hour & if I don’t go out. Telling me interesting stories when I need companion for conversation and be silent when I want to rest.”

The officer listened carefully and replied, “I understand you need television.”

There is a saying that a perfect match can only be found between a blind wife and a deaf husband, because the blind wife cannot see the faults of the husband and the deaf husband cannot hear the nagging of the wife.

Many couples are blind and deaf at the courting stage and dream of perpetual perfect relationship. Unfortunately, when the excitement of love wears off, they wake up and discover that marriage is not a bed of roses.

The nightmare begins.

NO OVERPOWERING

Many relationships fail because one party tries to overpower another, or demands too much. People in love tend to think that love will conquer all and their spouses will change the bad habits after marriage.

Actually, this is not the case. There is a Chinese saying which carries the meaning that “It is easier to reshape a mountain or a river than a person’s character.” It is not easy to change. Thus, having high expectation on changing the spouse character will cause disappointment and unpleasantness.

It would be less painful to change ourselves and lower our expectations.

RIGHT SPEECH

There is a Chinese saying which carries the meaning that “A speech will either prosper or ruin a nation.”

Many relationships break off because of wrong speech.

When a couple is too close with each other, we always forget mutual respect and courtesy. We may say anything without considering if it would hurt the other party.

A friend and her millionaire husband visited their construction site.

A worker who wore a helmet saw her and shouted, “Hi, Emily! Remember me? We used to date in the secondary school.” On the way home, her millionaire husband teased her, “Luckily you married me. Otherwise you will be the wife of a construction worker.” She answered, “You should appreciate that you married me. Other wise, he will be the millionaire and not you.”

Frequently exchanging these remarks plants the seed for a bad relationship. It’s like a broken egg – cannot be reversed.

PERSONAL PERCEPTION

Different people have different perception. One man’s meat could be another man’s poison.

A couple bought a donkey from the market. On the way home, a boy commented, “Very stupid. Why neither of them ride on the donkey? “Upon hearing that, the husband let the wife ride on the donkey. He walked besides them.

Later, an old man saw it and commented, “The husband is the head of family. How can the wife ride on the donkey while the husband is on foot?” Hearing this, the wife quickly got down and let the husband ride on the donkey.

Further on the way home, they met an old Lady. She commented, “How can the man ride on the donkey but let the wife walk. He is no gentleman.” The husband thus quickly asked the wife to join him on the donkey.

Then, they met a young man. He commented, “Poor donkey, how can you hold up the weight of two persons. They are cruel to you.” Hearing that, the husband and wife immediately climbed down from the donkey and carried it on their shoulders. It seems to be the only choice left. Later, on a narrow bridge, the donkey was frightened and struggled.

They lost their balance and fell into the river.

You can never have everyone praise you, nor will everyone condemn you. Never in the past, not at present, and never will be in the future. Thus, do not be too bothered by others words if our conscience is clear.

BE PATIENT

This is a true story which happened in the States. A man came out of his home to admire his new truck. To his puzzlement, his three-year-old son was happily hammering dents into the shiny paint of the truck. The man ran to his son, knocked him away, hammered the little boy’s hands into pulp as punishment.

When the father calmed down, he rushed his son to the hospital. Although the doctor tried desperately to save the crushed bones, he finally had to amputate the fingers from both the boy’s hands. When the boy woke up from the surgery & saw his bandaged stubs, he innocently said, “Daddy, I’m sorry about your truck.” Then he asked, “but when are my fingers going to grow back?”

The father went home & committed suicide.

Think about this story the next time someone steps on your feet or you wish to take revenge.

Think first before you lose your patience with someone you love.

Trucks can be repaired. Broken bones & hurt feelings often can’t. Too often we fail to recognize the difference between the person and the performance. We forget that forgiveness is greater than revenge.

People make mistakes. We are allowed to make mistakes.. But the actions we take while in a rage will haunt us forever.

xoxo

下一站幸福

We are living in the year of 2010 now. 6 days of it. Things had been relatively okay in the beginning of year 2010 for me. Just that I fell sick on 1st  Jan, but other then that, things are doing good for me, well, likewise for the previous year of 2009 as well :)

My love life is beautiful, & it just pulls me closer to boyfriend each day. Despite the lil hiccups & arguments we had, I’m still glad that we are able to make it up at the end of the day because we know deep inside, we still truly care for one another ♥

Both my family & boyfriend’s family are doing fine. But still, I hope God will bless them will good health & good wealth, & also, to remain happy always :)

& for everyone around me; love yourself & everyone around you. Be thankful for everyday & remember to count your blessings! :)

You will never be happier than you expect. To change your happiness, change your expectation.

xoxo

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Hello 2010;

Happy new year everybody! Can’t believe that we are in the year of 2010 already, 2009 is over just like this. Well, 2009 had been a relatively good year for me, nonetheless, I hope 2010 will be better for everyone of us :)

Am not making any new year resolutions this year, because if you realised, I had never really stick to them, so just let things go their way naturally. But then, I’ll just hope everyday will always be a better day, hoho. Hm, gotten sick on the first  day of 2010, boo, how nice right? Boyfriend had been reminding me not to eat these & that, not to drink these & that..

Mama got me 2 bracelets & 1 keychain when she went to Gentings, & & & all these doesn’t matter, what matter the most is what she told me when she passed me the keychain, so sweet & touching, I’ll never forget what she said. Love’yall.

Yayyy, anyhow, I hope 2010 will be a great & fulfilling year ahead for everyone of us! :)

Without you I’m nothing & there’s nothing I can do without you, thks for everything baby ♥

xoxo

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You spin my head right round

My health department wasn’t doing very good for this week. Fever, cough, sore throat came to visit me on Monday & Tuesday. Fever went back & left with cough & sore throat, flu came on Thursday, and stayed till this morning. Guess they are leaving soon because I am feeling much better already! =]

Last week celebrated baby’s birthday @ She Bangs. Was a blast, almost everyone was drunk, hehehe. Still, I want to thank baby’s friends for coming down, for making all these happened!

Time flies & it’s coming to an end of November & we will all be moving forward to December, then to the year of 2010… Birthday’s coming up & I’ve got no idea how should I celebrate it. Every year seems like a routine…  Ideas please?

Heading over to fetch baby’s off work later on & to buy cake for Mama’s birthday. Heading over to baby’s house for Mama’s birthday celebration. HAPPY BIRTHDAY MAMA! Hope she will remain this pretty always & bless her with good health & wealth :pPp

Am off to prepare now.

xoxo
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Two is better than one

We fought. We argued. We shouted. Tears. Unhappiness. Anger.

Made it up at the end of the day, & nothing beats better than your warm embrace & kisses. Seeing you smile is my favourite & you’ll always be my favourite baby.

xoxo
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